Anyone who has ever been really successful has failed. Period. Probably many many times.
Does it happen to everyone? Yup, pretty much which sucks but is also kinda liberating too. Because if everyone fails, then it's no big deal when you do, right? It is bound to happen if you are going for the things that matter most to you. Sometimes the truth is scary but perhaps its all in the way we look at things. I know I needed to reframe the way that I looked at failing. I was terrified to fail at anything. But thanks to the Universe and the amazing way it teaches you the things you most need to learn- I learned to fail. Repeated. Sigh.
So if you are doing it right...you will fail repeatedly along the way! When you do fail you realize that it is horrible, hard, and really uncomfortable but you survive. You don't die of failure, it is not a disease. What really matters is how you get back up. How do you do that? You get back up, dust yourself off and go again, all the while asking yourself how you can do it better this time.
Failure doesn't kill you, it makes you strong, it helps you to learn, to grow. Shift your perspective and failure doesn't look so terrifying after all. Failing teaches our brain how to do it differently and better the next time. We need that information to grow so without mistakes and failures, we wouldn't grow as a person.
You have to be willing to fail to be great! So take a chance and fail. Then fail again. Get back up and do it again. It's not easy or fun but you'll be ok, no, you will be on your way to creating a life you love.
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ps. Don't forget that you are a Divine being capable of anything.
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